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Ecstatic DAncie: Unlocking Emotional Healing

It cultivates a sense of flow. Flow means operating in a whole new dimension. What I called instinct. Becoming an Ecstatic DAncie is more than movement—it’s medicine for the body, brain, and spirit. In a world saturated with stress, overstimulation, and disconnection, dancing offers a natural reset and connection with oneself and others on the dance floor. When we step into the rhythm, we elevate serotonin, balance cortisol, and boost endorphins. When practiced for at least 20 minutes three times a week, these neurochemical processes help create joy, alleviate tension, initiate new synaptogenesis, facilitate emotional recovery, and improve intelligence. Becoming Ecstatic DAncie is not about performance or perfection; it’s about freedom, flow, transformation, connection, and sharing.

From a scientific perspective

,Dance stimulates neuroplasticity—the brain’s ability to rewire and form new connections. The way Joy Rhythm teaches movement challenges old patterns, inviting creativity, adaptability, and connection. Unlike rigid exercise routines, a DAncie bypasses the analytical mind and taps into instinct. This improvisational quality strengthens emotional regulation, enhances resilience, and supports mental clarity. In essence, every dance is a rewiring session for the nervous system, a chance to reset and expand.

On the physical level

DAncie dances a holistic workout. It engages muscles, improves circulation, and strengthens balance without the strain of repetitive drills. It supports bone health and vitality. Yet the true magic lies in how the body responds to rhythm. Movement lowers cortisol, the stress hormone, while simultaneously boosting serotonin and dopamine. This dual action reduces anxiety, elevates mood, and creates a natural state of well-being. It’s exercise, therapy, and meditation rolled into one. Joy Rhythm shows you methodically how to do it without fail.

Emotionally

Becoming an ecstatic DAncie unlocks flow; instincts. In the dance space, suppressed feelings rise to the surface, not to overwhelm but to release. The body becomes a channel for integration—anger dissolves, grief transforms, joy expands, and it allows connections like no other, even with strangers. This process is deep healing because it bypasses words and taps into the primal language of movement. Emotional healing through dance is not abstract; it is embodied, visceral, and lasting. Participants often describe a sense of inner transformation, as the DAncie clears away layers of tension and reconnects them to their authentic self and makes them vulnerable for connections with others.

Spiritually

A DAncie practices and embodies a state of connection and presence. Participants are able to see others for who they truly are, even if only for a brief moment on the dance floor. It bridges body and soul, grounding us in the present moment while opening portals to higher awareness. In community settings, it fosters belonging and collective energy. Alone, it becomes a meditation in motion, a dialogue with the inner self. This holistic integration—body, brain, and spirit—makes becoming a DAncie one of the most powerful practices for personal growth and wellness.

Become Part of the Solution

Seeking natural remedies for stress, anxiety, or creative stagnation, Joy Rhythm offers a proven path. It is accessible, joyful, and transformative. Whether practiced in a group or solo, the benefits ripple outward—better mood, sharper focus, stronger body, and deeper connection to self and others. Before you know it, you take the mindset home with you, to your work, and to social events. In a culture hungry for healing, a DAncie stands as a creator of a new world, one of Heaven on Earth. That is how we can share love, healing, and joy by creating a safe space for all. Even if it lasts only for a moment, people feel the difference. People feel the difference. That is why I created Ecstatic DAncie Inner National Joy’s Rhythm. It does matter. You matter!

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Dancing, Memory: My Journey to Healing and Joy

In 2016, my life took a turn I never could have predicted. I had always been the reliable one, the punctual one—especially at work at Shull School in San Dimas. So when friends and colleagues began telling me I was missing appointments, I chalked it up to practical jokes or misunderstandings. Surely, not me! But the universe had a way of making me pay attention.

The wake-up call came out of nowhere: one moment I was on the golf course with my weekly team, the next I “woke up” in my car, already making a left turn in the middle of a busy intersection. No memory of leaving the course, just a wave of fear and confusion. I pulled over, heart racing, and finally saw the truth—my friends weren’t joking. I was missing more than appointments; losing pieces of myself was more like it.

Time for a Change

Subsequently, I made the tough decision to quit my job and seek healing. I started my healing journey with my mom in Santa Barbara, but when that arrangement didn’t work out, I remembered an invitation from Darlene Marmol. I remembered an invitation from Darlene Marmol, who had come to see me months earlier about my father, Jim Humble, and his work with MMS, chlorine dioxide. She had offered me a place in Sequim, Washington, and for the first time, I took her up on it.

Those first weeks in Sequim were both humbling and life-affirming. I stayed with the Marmols, and the people of Sequim and Port Angeles welcomed me like family. Even as my memory struggled and my health wavered, their kindness surrounded me. My New Moon friends became my chosen family—always ready with a hug, making sure I felt valued and accepted, no matter how many names I forgot or how scattered I felt. I was cared for, seen, and made wanted in a way I hadn’t realized I needed.

Through this community, I began to heal. But as a health coach who couldn’t even remember her own protocols, I was embarrassed to ask for help. Luckily, one friend, Vicky Shamp, became my guiding light—introducing me to everyone, helping me stay grounded, and even sponsoring me on a cruise to Alaska when I desperately needed a change. An experienced and well-trained acupuncturist on board, along with the convenience of a credit card swipe, kept me motivated, and gradually, I noticed improvements in my health, despite my memory still struggling to keep up.

Egged on to Teach

And then, I danced. At first, it was just a way to express my joy and gratitude for those around me. But soon, others wanted to learn “my style.” I didn’t even know I had a style! It took me a year to figure out what made it unique—and now, I’m teaching others to become “Dancies,” to find their own style in joy rhythm, and to share it with their community. I call it, Joy Rhythm from my company, Ecstatic Dancie Inner National.

My journey isn’t over, but I’ve learned that healing looks like community, courage, and a lot of dancing—even if you forget the steps. If you’re struggling, know you’re not alone. There’s always a new rhythm to discover and a community waiting to dance with you.
Because my system helps you gain the confidence and joy—and shows you how to share it without being intrusive.

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Unlock Self-Consciousness while Having the Time of Your Life.

Easily Learn How to Create a New You

Have you ever felt the pull to move your body freely, without rules or routines, just following the rhythm of your soul? That’s the essence of Joy Rhythm—a practice that invites you to step into joy, create, and discover a deeper connection to yourself and others. For me, dance has always been more than movement; it’s growth, it’s storytelling, and it’s a way of knowing who we truly are.

🧠 Brain Benefits

When you enter the dance floor, you’re not just exercising—you’re prepared to experience you and share the flow. Science tells us that dance elevates serotonin, balances cortisol, and boosts endorphins. But beyond the chemistry, there’s something magical that happens: you learn how to connect to yourself and build confidence, creativity awakens, and the mind quiets enough for clarity to shine through. Each step becomes a design to embrace the freedom of authentic self‑expression. It liberates you from self-judgment, paving the way for a gentle acceptance of others.

Becoming an Ecstatic Dancie is also a powerful workout for the body, though it never feels like one. Instead of rigid routines, you find yourself moving in ways that strengthen balance, improve circulation, and support bone health. Every dance is a blend of exercise and creating presence, rolled into one. You leave not only stronger but also lighter, more energized, and more resilient. It’s vitality born from joy, not obligation, and sharing when desire hits.

🌈 Fosters Creativity

And then there’s the emotional transformation. Dancie’s learn to connect to our authentic selves and, better yet, learn to share that with others. In the flow state, pleasure expands, resilience grows, and a renewed sense of freedom takes root. It’s not about performing or perfecting—it’s about allowing. Allowing your body to speak, your emotions to flow, and your spirit to shine.

On a spiritual level, ecstatic dancie’s become present in motion. It bridges body and soul, grounding you in the present moment while opening space for connection with others if one so desires. In formal community settings, the energy multiplies—suddenly you’re not just dancing alone anymore; you’re part of a group rhythm, a shared joy, a transformation that ripples outward. Together, we create belonging, connection, and a reminder that being you doesn’t have to be solitary.

💪 Body Benefits


The beauty of being an Ecstatic Dancie is its accessibility. You don’t need a gym membership, fancy equipment, or years of training. You only need a willingness to move to your own tune and an openness to explore your creativity. Whether practiced solo in your living room or in a circle of dancers, the benefits are profound: sharper focus, stronger body, brighter mood, and deeper connection to self. You can take this Joy Rhythn style practically to any dance floor and to music genre.

For me, this practice is about more than fitness—it’s about awakening. It’s about remembering that joy is not frivolous; it’s essential. Joy Rhythm elevates chemistry, rewires the brain, and awakens the spirit. It’s a natural remedy for aloneness, connectivity, and creative stagnation. Most of all, it’s an invitation: to move, to connect, to create, and to shine.

🔑Key Takeaway


So if you’re curious about learning to dance—or simply want to add sparkle and energy to your moves—become an Ecstatic Dancie. Together we’ll discover that dance isn’t just something we do; it’s something we live.

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Why Dance at All? Dance to Change Your Life.

Dance is a basic fundamental of life. We all danced sometime in our lives, especially when we were kids.

When we were kids, movement was effortless. We ran simply because it felt good. We skipped, leaped, twirled, and devised playful walks that caused our friends to burst into laughter. Our bodies were our playgrounds, and every gesture was a tiny celebration of being alive. Back then, we didn’t call it “exercise” or “dance.” It was just joy expressing itself through motion.

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Remember we ran and danced as kids.

Somewhere along the way, many of us forgot that. We grew up, sat down, and stayed still. But the truth remains: any movement of the body is a dance. And when we bring dance back into our lives, we revive something essential — our love for life, our connection to others, and our sense of freedom. Every human being longs for that freedom of movement. Our bodies crave it. Movement regulates our systems, supports circulation, balances hormones, and oxygenates our cells. It is one of the most natural ways to return ourselves to balance.

But movement is more than biology. It is a doorway to joy. When we consciously choose to move — not out of obligation, but out of curiosity and pleasure — we awaken creativity. We reconnect with the playful, expressive part of ourselves that never truly disappeared. And once that creativity is awake, we can use it to strengthen our relationships. Dance becomes a bridge: a way to connect with friends, family, neighbors, and even new acquaintances without needing the perfect words or the perfect mood. Movement speaks a universal language.

Ecstatic Dancie, practiced in the Joy Rhythm style, amplifies all of this. When done three or more times a week for just twenty minutes, it stimulates the brain to form new neural pathways. It keeps the body pliable and the mind alert. Entire TED Talks explore how dance supports cognitive health, emotional resilience, and long‑term brain function. Research even shows that dance can help delay dementia and Alzheimer’s — a wonderful side effect, though not the primary purpose of Joy Rhythm.

The true purpose of this book is to guide you back into your body and show you how movement can transform your relationships and your daily life. Through Joy Rhythm, you will learn how to create safe spaces where you can express your feelings, emotions, and thoughts without judgment. You’ll discover how simple movements can evolve into dances that bring you joy, clarity, and connection. And you’ll learn how to share that experience with others — not as a performance, but as an invitation. https://www.ted.com/talks/ryan_heffington_how_dance_can_unleash_your_inner_joy

Using this method of Ecstatic Dancie Joy Rhythm will bring vitality, laughter, creativity, and purpose into your life. It will help you build new social connections rooted in authenticity and play. It will remind you that joy is not something you chase—it’s something you create through movement and live.

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Movement Mechanics is the Method for Men

Become a “DAncie” and look good

For many men, the word “dance” is synonymous with “danger.” It represents a unique social trap: a situation where you are expected to move to music, yet feel you lack the blueprint to do so without looking foolish. You might find yourself at a wedding, a gala, or a holiday party, glass in hand, rooted to the spot or performing the “polite sway” because the alternative—coordinated choreography—feels like a foreign language you never learned.

A father dances playfully with his daughter in a sunny field, capturing joy and bonding.
New Way to Move for the Non-Dancer

Ecstatic DAncie Inner National ~ Joy Rhythm is designed specifically to dismantle this paralysis. It isn’t about learning a “routine”; it’s about installing a functional movement operating system that works on any floor, in any setting, without a single rehearsed step.

The Problem with Traditional Dance

Standard dance classes are often built on mimicry. You watch an instructor, try to mirror their limbs, and fail to keep up with the count. This practice creates a “performance mindset,” which is the opposite of relaxation. For the analytical man, this is frustrating because it’s a system with too many variables and no clear logic.

Joy Rhythm flips the script. Instead of teaching you what to do, it teaches you how your body naturally responds to beat and tempo. It treats movement as a form of nervous system regulation. By focusing on internal rhythm rather than external form, you bypass the “critic” in your brain that says you look awkward.

The Utility of the “Anywhere” Method

The true value of the Joy Rhythm method is its portability. You aren’t learning a dance that only works in a studio; you are developing a physical confidence that translates to:

  • Professional Networking: Better posture and body awareness lead to a more commanding presence.  
  • Social Events: The ability to step onto a dance floor at a wedding and actually enjoy the music, rather than counting down the minutes until you can sit back down.
  • Stress Management: It serves as a high-intensity interval session that clears the mental “cache” of a high-pressure work week.

A Controlled Environment for Uncontrolled Movement

We understand that for a man who doesn’t dance, “letting go” can feel risky. This is why Joy Rhythm prioritizes a Safe Space. Our sessions are not performances. There are no mirrors to judge yourself in, no stages, and no “grades.” It is a low-pressure environment where the goal is purely kinetic. You get the cardiovascular benefits of a gym workout combined with the mental clarity of a meditation session, all while solving the “I don’t know what to do with my hands” problem forever.

The Secret Wish: Freedom from Inhibition

Deep down, every man wants to be able to move with the same ease he sees in others. You want to feel the music without the filter of self-consciousness. Joy Rhythm provides the bridge. It gives you the “rhythm mechanics” to feel grounded and capable. You don’t choose Joy Rhythm to become a “dancer”—you choose it to become a man who is no longer sidelined by his own hesitation.

Stop standing on the edge of the room. It’s time to trade the rigid “work-mode” body for a more fluid, resilient version of yourself. Be part of the party.

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Add Spark to your dance connections

Improve your life by exploring Ecstatic Dancie Inner National ~ Joy Rhythm:  

Joy Rhythm addressed key concepts:

Flow: Accept the natural rhythm of your body and how it moves. We even provide you some easy, simple steps to get you started.

Freedom of expression: You need to let yourself express yourself without judgment and shyness. With practice, this becomes simpler and more natural. This dancing style is easy to learn and can help you feel good about yourself, move with confidence, and be present in any location, whether it’s a class, a club, or your own living room. The first Joy Rhythm lesson you take is called “Solo,” and it teaches you all of this.

Energetic senior couple in matching red sweaters dancing happily indoors.

Our second course is all on “Connection”: you learn how to connect with people in your community and share your energy with others. At first, this is a little uncomfortable, but that’s where growth comes in. Be present, be aware, and really be in the moment. Listen to your gut. Let your gut feelings guide your actions. Dance to express yourself personally and emotionally. Joy Rhythm is a movement experience that can help you bring back play, connection, energy, and excitement into your life.

Joy Rhythm methods help you get your confidence back so you can move, play, and shine just as you are. This is a way to accept yourself, create you, and connect with others. Learn how to create a fun and judgment-free space. This feature is a significant plus. You don’t have to worry about “doing everything right.”  It’s about having fun, meeting new people, and sharing your joy. This is a dance you can take with you anywhere. Let yourself play and feel like a kid again. You become the person you have been aiming to become. Once you master the portable “Take-It-Anywhere” Method, you may use it to bring joy to your living room, lunch breaks, stroll in the park, or even a full-on dance floor. It becomes a tool you may use to: • raise your mood; • get out of your head; • reconnect with your body; • make you feel like you’re part of something bigger than yourself.

Dance helps you let go of stress. It’s a strong and safe approach to get relief from the stress in our bodies. And doing it with presence and intention can potentially make you smarter and keep dementia and Alzheimer’s at bay. Even better, take care of your physique. Think of it as nature’s gym—no equipment needed, just your willingness to move and courage to dive in for a stronger mind-body bond.

Your body is a dance foundation that will help you rock any dance floor. You will feel good about moving around at a wedding, a club, a retreat, or a beach bonfire. No more lurking at the fringes. You won’t have to worry about whether you’re “doing it right” anymore. Your body learns how to move, how to be present, and how to be in rhythm. These are all things that people are subconsciously drawn to. You look like you know what you’re doing the more you do it. Join communal circles (typically Ecstatic Communities) practically anywhere that lets you meet other people who seek the same things—play, health, and happiness—without feeling self-conscious. This is where friendships start, when someone glances across the room and thinks, “We get each other.”

It takes time, but beat synchronization will come effortlessly. When you reset your neurological system, your stress levels go down, your energy levels go up, and your heart rate settles into a rhythm that feels wonderful, not frenzied. It’s akin to invigorating your mind with a clean, fresh breeze. When you get out of your head and into your body, it’s much simpler to connect with other people. It will truly make you smarter as time goes on! You don’t have to feel like you have to fix yourself before you can have fun again. It takes away the fear of talking to other people and makes it more comfortable.

This practice helps you accept yourself by moving your body. You stop evaluating your body from the outside and start to feel it from the inside, where the wisdom is. The method helps you stop fighting and start trusting yourself. You who thought you were “too stiff” or “too old” are now smiling at your own personal reflection again. Anyone can do simple, guided dance moves that remove the pressure of “looking good.” You learn playful, flowing steps that wake up muscles you forgot you had, loosen your hips, lift your mood, and help you feel positive. You feel coordinated—not because you are perfect, but because the moves make sense and feel comfortable.

Joy Rhythm is a movement experience designed to help you get back in touch with play, connections, and physical vitality and to spice up your life. It’s a simple way to reset your soul via dance that teaches you how to move with confidence, feel safe, and have the warmth to step into any venue—whether it’s a class, a club, or your party—with ease and presence.

Give yourself the permission to shine—just as you are. Here is where you may sign up for your classes.

It’s something you practice.

Now you have a way to become the person you want to be. It’s a way to embrace yourself, create yourself, and connect with others to bring back the joy you have been missing.

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Unlock Joy become an Ecstatic DAncie:


I am known as the “Dancing Queen.” For years, people from all walks of life asked me to teach them my style of dance. At first, I resisted—I thought, This is just how I move, how I express myself. But the requests kept coming, and eventually I decided, “Ok, I will.”

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That decision began a journey of discovery. I asked myself, “What do I do differently from other styles of dance?” It took me over a year of exploration, reflection, and practice to answer that question. Out of that process, Ecstatic Dance Inner National Joy Rhythm was born.

Joy Rhythm is more than choreography—it’s a program and system designed to be taken to any dance floor, with any music, by anyone. It’s about expression of joy, social connection, and fun for all ages. Whether you’re a seasoned dancer or someone who has never stepped onto a dance floor, Joy Rhythm invites you to move freely, release stress, and reconnect with your body.

The benefits go far beyond fun. It builds confidence like no other. Joy Rhythm is a holistic practice that keeps both body and mind in shape. Physically, it strengthens muscles, improves circulation, and boosts energy. Mentally, it stimulates neuroplasticity, enhances creativity, and supports emotional regulation. Spiritually, it opens space for transformation, helping participants reconnect with their authentic selves.

At its core, Joy Rhythm is about freedom and flow. It’s not about performance or perfection—it’s about moving in a way that feels natural, joyful, and healing. It’s a system anyone can learn, but more importantly, it’s a practice anyone can embody.

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Bring back the Joy of Dance and connection

It’s all about free expression, social connection, and fun for all ages, helping you release stress and reconnect with your body. Physically, it builds strength, boosts circulation, and energizes you. Mentally, it sparks creativity and emotional balance. Spiritually, it’s transformative, tapping into your authentic self. Joy Rhythm isn’t about perfection—it’s freedom in motion, blending dance, wellness, and healing. Movement is confidence, rhythm is connection, and joy is your birthright.